Browsing: Marital Counselling

Last on the list, and the boldest by a clear margin: Uncensored: What the Bible Actually Says About Sex, Desire,…

By Oluwafunke Allen The Sex Talk You Never Got  God’s Unfiltered Design for the Most Talked-About, Least Understood Topic in…

A second batch of options landed on my desk after the first four, and this one is a sharper turn…

By Oluwafunke Allen Of the four subtitle options sitting on my desk this week, this is the only one that…

By Oluwafunke Allen The second option on the list I’ve been given is the most direct of the bunch: Everything…

By Oluwafunke Allen “Should we talk to our pastor about this, or do we need actual counselling?” I get some…

By Oluwafunke Allen Once a month, I stand in front of a room at Daystar’s Marriage and Family Life ministry…

By Oluwafunke Allen One spouse wants help. The other says, flatly, “I’m not doing that.” This is one of the…

Fifteen years ago, if you’d asked me what hope looked like inside a struggling marriage, I would have given you…

By Oluwafunke Allen There’s a fear I hear so often it might as well be a category of its own:…

A gentle note before we start: this post touches on trauma and mental health, briefly and in general terms nothing…

By Oluwafunke Allen Most people choose a marriage counsellor the way they choose a restaurant a friend mentioned once a…

By Oluwafunke Allen People occasionally ask me what “NLP” means after I mention it, usually with a slightly worried look,…

By Oluwafunke Allen I want to say something that might sound strange coming from a counsellor: I don’t think every…

Nobody hands you a manual for this part. You get taught, extensively, how to choose a spouse but almost nobody…

by Oluwafunke Allen My husband and I got on a call recently with our marriage mentor, in a small group…

Nobody hands you a manual at the hospital. You get a car seat demonstration, a stack of pamphlets about feeding…